The happiness of being loved and being in love is so different. You don’t care about anything when you get the love you deserve. I believe being in love is just momentary, it’s just the moment when two person express their love for each other and then it’s over. Real love is being loved, being pampered, getting importance in the most difficult situations. It shows you are there on their mind even when there is so much going on, and even if you are there, it necessarily needs to be communicated, that’s being loved and the best feeling ever.
People fall in love very easily but to continue with it is so much different, it requires commitment and understanding. More than trust and faith, this expression of love will keep things alive forever.
It doesn’t choke you of your personal space, it’s just acknowledgement of the bond you share.
Those who said you love only once never experienced a fading love. You love and unlove the same person again and again and again as the situation changes. And the most difficult thing is to unlove or seeing your love fading, you know it’s not as you desire and you can’t do anything about it. You can’t share the same feeling with the other one. Only surviving on the boat of love without expressing the same won’t get you to any island, you will always be rowing in the ocean without any direction and in a state of confusion. Always!!
Ruhaniyat 